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“One of the best positions for DVP is to have the receiving partner kneeling over one of the giving partners, at the edge of a bed, while the second giving partner’s standing behind the receiver,” says Neal. Physically, because their phallus gets to enjoy the tightness of a vagina *and* the sensation of another phallus rubbing against it.Īnd psychologically, because DVP often involves power-exchange between the penetrators and the receiver. It can be both physically and psychologically arousing for the penetrators as well. “They may also be psychologically aroused by the thought of being filled by two phalluses (two penises, one penis and one strap-on, or two strap-ons) inside of them at the same time,” she adds. “DVP allows a vagina-haver to experience a lot of sensation, fullness, and pressure inside their vagina,” says Neal. In case you don’t know: DVP = double vaginal penetration. Could any first-aid supplies be necessary?.What snacks and drinks do you want to have on hand?.Who will be doing the toy and sheet clean-up?.“But sex toys can add in more options for play and pleasure, and make sure that everyone can have something fun happening to their body if hands, tongues, and genitals are otherwise occupied.” Noted! Talk about post-sex needs, pre-playīefore the threesome starts, you want to negotiate what’s going to happen when the threesome ends, says queer sex educator Marla Renee Stewart, MA, sexpert for Lovers, an adult wellness brand and retailer. “What toys you use will depend on personal preferences, and what everyone is comfortable doing and to whom,” says Deysach. The longer the sex session goes on, the less likely the body is able to produce ample lubrication to keep the session enjoyable, explains Searah Deysach, sex educator and owner of Early to Bed, a pleasure-product company in Chicago that ships worldwide.Īdding in store-bought lubrication ensures that any bumping and grinding remains pleasurable instead of getting friction-y. Are there other boundaries or concerns?ĭo threesome quickies exist? Sure! But if you’re reading a list of the best threesome positions, odds are the threesome in your horizon won’t be one.Īnd while it’s well-documented that all sex is made more pleasurable by lube, lube is especially important for lengthy love-making.Are some people just watchers, or are there boundaries around certain sex acts with certain people?.What is everyone’s level of involvement?.What sexy things are on the menu and which ones are off the menu?.What’s been your previous experience with threesomes?.What barriers do we want to use for what sex acts?.To manage expectations and ensure the most pleasurable experience for all parties, Matatas says it’s important to ask and answer the following before stripping down:

Communicate about what the threesome is going to look like beforehand It can feature vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse, both the types of intercourse simultaneously, or a mix. It can include hand sex, oral sex, solo sex, or a mix. So let the record show that a threesome doesn’t need to include penetration to qualify as a threesome.Ī threesome is, simply, sex that happens between three people, says sexuality, body, confidence, and kink educator Luna Matatas, creator of Peg The Patriarchy.Īnd that sex can be many different expressions of pleasure! Porn may have led you to believe that threesomes are all about penetration and double penetration. Remember how expansive the definition of threesomes really is These five tips will set yourself up for pleasure, regardless of position.

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